Discomfort-zoned

Levelling Up and Productivity, Mental Fitness, Values based living

My habitual response to discomfort is to run, avoid, or to distract from the problem with something. Examples:

  • Feel anxious about work, or imposter syndrome –immediately want to leave my job and find somewhere else.
  • Feel tired or stressed: nap my problems away or watch YouTube videos until I feel better.
  • Get annoyed at a friend or situation: complain or vent about it instead of taking any action to fix it.
  • Know I should write a blog post, but I don’t feel inspired so I don’t wanna: avoid it. (admittedly I’ve been steadily writing my novel as well, but I am hardly trying to fit blogging in either)

My journey in cutting out compulsions has gotten pretty far, but I must fill my time with useful things, or I’ll start relapsing. It is in incremental steps so far, as I mentioned in my previous post about small wins: committing to the tiniest action as often as I can. Writing a paragraph, playing one scale on guitar, putting on my exercise clothes. It’s working well so far, as the act of starting usually propels me into doing more.

However, ironically, a discomfort I need to move towards is feeling like I’m ‘not doing well enough’ at moving towards discomfort! I tend to put myself down, and sometimes the struggle towards doing more comes from a feeling of inadequacy and unhappiness with my life, rather than just wanting to do more things I like.

But I’m doing fine. And I can act, and do things I value, and love myself — regardless of the discomfort that brings.

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